Secrets to Live to be 100

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April 5, 2011

Tami Simon speaks with Maoshing Ni, a doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine. Their discussion includes using the mind as an ally in the healing process, what Dr. Mao has learned from his study of centenarians, the correlation between caloric intake and longevity, and how certain exercises can help us bring the mind and the body into harmony. Dr. Mao has been featured in the New York Times and the Los Angeles Times, and is currently featured as an expert on Yahoo! Health. With Sounds True, Dr. Mao has released Meditations to Live to Be 100 and has a forthcoming release called Qi Meditations: Guided Visualizations for Self-Healing. (49 minutes)

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Maoshing Ni, Ph.D., D.O.M., ABAAHP is a doctor of traditional Chinese medicine. He is cofounder of Yo San University in Los Angeles, and directs the Longevity and Healthy Aging program at the Tao of Wellness. He is author of Secrets of Longevity: Hundreds of Ways to Live to Be 100 and Secrets of Self-Healing. “Dr. Mao” has lectured internationally, appeared on television, and been featured in the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, and other publications. He is currently featured as an expert on Yahoo! Health, where he writes a blog about longevity.

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Secrets to Live to be 100

Tami Simon speaks with Maoshing Ni, a doctor of Traditional Chinese Medicine. Their discussion includes using the mind as an ally in the healing process, what Dr. Mao has learned from his study of centenarians, the correlation between caloric intake and longevity, and how certain exercises can help us bring the mind and the body into harmony. Dr. Mao has been featured in the New York Times and the Los Angeles Times, and is currently featured as an expert on Yahoo! Health. With Sounds True, Dr. Mao has released Meditations to Live to Be 100 and has a forthcoming release called Qi Meditations: Guided Visualizations for Self-Healing. (49 minutes)

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