Your heart is love’s tavern

    —
August 24, 2013

There is a brief moment when you imagined that your sorrow was working against you. For an instant there was the sense that your sadness, your despair, and your loneliness were obstacles on the path. But love is a shape-shifter. She will take any form she must to unlock a secret place within you.

Even in the center of your fear, right in the heart of your anxiety, weaved into the fabric of your most scary places there is a raging intelligence, a firestorm of pure creativity. Love is awakening those parts of you that have drifted asleep. This is not a journey into some transcendent, detached, and safe place, but into the heart of a wild, untamed groundlessness. You will feel so much more than you ever felt, care so much more than you ever thought possible, yet you will know nothing. Love will even convince you of her absence if that is how she must reach you.

It may seem like an ordinary Saturday, but what is happening here is far from ordinary. Stop. Breathe. Lay your hands on your sacred body. Touch the earth and feel the aliveness and the rare opportunity that has been given here. It will not last long, friends, for love will be calling you home soon. Every person you meet, each feeling that surges within you, every emotion that comes knocking at the door of your heart, every form that appears – love is sending its messengers to you, one by one.

Your body is love’s temple, your heart is its tavern, your eyes are its windows, your words of kindness are its voice, the way you sweetly touch another are its hands – for it is only through you that love can explode into this world.

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  • Nancy Fabiano says:

    ….Gorgeous, beautiful and true. Thank you Matt for the gift of your words. They weave deep reminders into the one true memory of who we are. Speaking of Love as a shape shifter, here is something that came to me during Mark Nepo’s pre-fest last week at WakeUp. It was one of those “quarter turns” he speaks of, a paradigm shift which allowed me to embrace the dark matter of my ego and find the jewel right there, inside…
    ~~~
    The voices which have claimed for eons ‘you are not enough’ have worn me
    … like black crows picking at my soul.
    So very tired, I let them have their way and set aside my jar of Secrets.
    Behaving as I should, no longer free, in the trance of little life, the
    cosmic joke, the big illusion.
    Looking back now, I decide to claim her, that diamond in the rough.
    She is shimmering now, singing her song.
    and I see perhaps
    it was the voices of doubt
    that have weathered me into this brilliant ruby
    I now hold in my beautiful hands.

    ~~~~

    to the quarter turns, and the wild untamed groundlessness you so eloquently describe Matt ! Thank you for sharing your voice.

    Nancy Fabiano

    • Matt Licata says:

      This is really beautiful, Nancy, thank you so much for sharing with us and for opening your heart so wide. I’m really happy to hear you found Mark’s workshop illuminating; he tends to offer that. May we walk into the wild untamed groundlessness together, my friend… lots of love.

  • Carol Paysinger says:

    Thank you Matt, for these beautiful, eloquent words that my soul recognizes as Truth.

  • Rich Featherly says:

    Well said Matt, have you written any books? Actually what you wrote in the four paragraphs above, says more than many books do.

    • Matt Licata says:

      Hi Rich, thank you for your very kind words. I am finishing a dissertation and will likely turn my attention to a book (or two) in the new year. For now, much of my writing can be found on A Healing Space. Take care, my friend.

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