• Matt Licata, PhD: The Alchemy of Befriending Ourselves in Difficult Times

    Matt Licata — November 17, 2020

    Matt Licata is a practicing psychotherapist, a co-facilitator of a monthly online membership community called Befriending Yourself, and the author of The Path Is Everywhere. With...

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Founded Sounds True in 1985 as a multimedia publishing house with a mission to disseminate spiritual wisdom. She hosts a popular weekly podcast called Insights at the Edge, where she has interviewed many of today's leading teachers. Tami lives with her wife, Julie M. Kramer, and their two spoodles, Rasberry and Bula, in Boulder, Colorado.

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Matt Licata, PhD: The Alchemy of Befriending Ourselves...

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